Internet Stranger Ethan

This week we talk to internet stranger Ethan, our youngest guest so far at the ripe age of 22 -- so young, so full of life. We talk about his trip to South Korea and how he's the hottest  member of his band Casio Ghost (sorry other band members). 
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welcome to the podcast pursuit of happiness. I am your host Marta. And this week we talk with young Ethan, where we talk about things like what it's like to be 22 in this day and age and also summering in South Korea, so please listen to it. Okay, bye. Okay, we're gonna start with our icebreaker. All right. Have you ever sent a dick pic? Yes. Did someone ask? I can't say I've ever sent an unwarranted one. It's always been a relationship type situation. Okay. That's good. As long as somebody it was not just thrown at somebody. The receiver knew it was coming. Okay, that's good. Okay, now we're gonna ask you some questions. So we kind of know what type of person you are. And then we'll get into the real step. What is your favorite movie? And if you don't have one, what's the last movie you watched? And did you like it? My classic favorite movie answers School of Rock. But one that I just watched that I really enjoyed was control. It was like the, in Curtis like Joy Division, kind of like document or like trauma of his life or whatever. Yeah. Where's that? Yeah. Where can you watch that? On YouTube, it was like $3 or something came out like 2007 I think. Okay, well, I loved school of rock because my name was in it. And I was really excited about that. Cuz my name is naughty things. And I was like, hey, you know, my, there's a little girl in a name Marta. She's like, the blonde one. She's like, she's not a main person in it. But that came out when I was like, 13 or something. And I was very stoked to hear my name. So no shit. Yeah, it is. Yeah, yeah. Very cool. Yeah. Okay, now we got to, this one might be difficult for you. Because you seem like you're a musician. What's your favorite band? And if you can't think of one if you have Spotify, your top Spotify Artist of the Year? Yeah, so my number one last year was this band called Spirit of the beehive. They're like this shoegaze II thing from the East Coast. The boats like super melancholy and like fuzzy I don't know, just hits the soul. Right? I guess. Yeah. And then lately, I've been into Indigo D'Souza. I like her a lot. She has like a party say like, kind of like indie ish, but more like rockin not so like, smooth, you know? Yeah. Okay. i That's I don't know these people. But you know what, I'm getting lots of music recommendations from this. I'll listen to it and make my decision about who you are as a person. Okay. So, you are in college. So we'll ask you what your, your major is? Do people ask that? What are you studying? I'm in my fifth year at the University of Utah. I'm studying information systems. And yeah, this is my last semester. So graduating in the spring. This may, I guess, what is that? What is like, Business Technology pretty much like getting info between like the whole like system, I guess is made of people and computers. You kind of the bridge between people and computers and like, our computers, the computers, so kind of making the information highways flow or something. Oh, cool. I didn't even know that was a thing. mean either. So I started doing it a couple years ago. It sounds alright. Yeah. How do you feel about experiencing? I guess, last semester, it was in person, right. And this semester, so But lots of your college experience was in COVID times, right? Definitely. Yeah. And even Yeah, I'm still feeling it this semester, even last semester. Yeah. Like, some of my brilliant half of my classes are online. Yeah. And it's a bummer. It's such as life, but uh, just getting it done. I guess I'm not gonna if I stopped I don't see myself coming back and finishing it. I kind of just feel like I have to sprint and get it done. Yeah, I I mean, I didn't go to college during a pan. Demmick but I did no college cool fun things anyways, I didn't take advantage of it. How sad. It's okay. Okay, last question, then we'll move on what's wrong with you? And you can interpret this. However you I am perfect. Yeah, that's the I get anxious and nervous. Okay, I get a like worried about strangers like me or something, you know? That I'm like a big scale. I don't know. I just like want people to I don't know, you're a people pleaser. Yeah, I'm like, that makes sense. I think that's a lot of people's problems. So I least we're all in it together. Maybe sighted people pleasing. Maybe it's just not wanting people to not like me. Not that I'm actually trying to please them. I just don't I want them to know, like me or something. That makes sense. I feel that way too. I feel that way. Yeah, a lot of the time. So I get that. Okay. We're gonna move on to our next segment. And it's called overgeneralize. Questions about men? For men. Basically, you just have to take your best guess if you don't feel like you know the answer. Just be like, Okay, I'm in the mind of the billions of men in the world. What seems like the answer is okay. I'm gonna shuffle through my mini cards. Okay, this one was submitted to me via social media. Do men really not notice their man spreading? What do you think? Yeah, I think they Yeah, I, I think they do notice it. But I think it's kind of intrinsic, I guess. I don't know if it's purposeful, you know? Yeah, I think there's like, try to take up as much space as possible to be like, an imposing, like, powerful thing, you know? Yeah. And so I don't know, if it's necessarily actively trying to make people mad or spreads like that. It's just something that has been ingrained in all of you. That has the hierarchy to be that, you know, yeah. Yeah, take up as much space as you can. You need to be. Yeah. Have you seen the video of Keanu Reeves giving up his seat to a woman on the subway? It's really cute. Give us Yeah, it's from a log on. I just watched it as like, oh, Keanu. Oh, you're such a nice guy. Okay, next question. Um, what does I'm not looking for anything serious? Really Mean? Follow up question doesn't mean they can tell. You're not going to hook up with them. Yeah, it means you're trying to go. Yeah, I'm pretty easy to read between the lines. And what was the follow up question again? It was basically does it mean that they did know that they're not gonna get some quick and easy access? I think everyone's got to everyone's got a price though. Or not a price, but you could catch anyone. What what do you think is like, okay, so men who are just going on the apps for hookups, like how many dates Do you think that they're like, Okay, I gotta throw out the can't I'm not looking for anything serious? Is it after the first day? Second day? Third day? Do people go on dates anymore? Yeah. I think you probably give it if you're if that's your your tag, I guess you probably give it two dates max. And if it's two days, I think you probably are the next Yeah. But I don't know if it's the most charming small talk. I would say no, but you know what, on behalf of all women we don't like because I don't know some ladies I'm sure they're too for that same thing. So all power to those people. Okay, next question. Okay, maybe nobody has agreed with this question and I have been confused. Buy it but maybe you for some reason will get it. Why are there so many songs about women wearing little black dresses? Are there songs about where I felt like there are but there's something about it. There's like there's the formality. It's black, you know, but then there's the fun flirty Ness little so yeah, I think it's a I think it's a good news I think it's a universal muse. I think everybody's a little black dress. Yeah. Have you ever sung I don't know if you and sing Have you ever played a song that includes a little black dress? And now I have not. But my favorite local songs right now is about a sundress. Yeah, I mean, sundress could be what I will be a really it's not like the best color for a sundress. But if you Yeah, I think it's it's in the same league playing the same sport. Yeah, yeah, for sure. Oh, shit. Okay, sorry. I thought I lost my phone. Okay, we're gonna move on to questions about your dating profile. So basically, what I'm going to do is ask you, I'm going to tell you why I think you chose a photo. And then you can just tell me the real reason why. I'm not saying that anyone thinks these when they see your photos. It's just like my brainwash. But first of all, we have to I have to ask, we all want to know, you are good. 22 years old, and I am 31 years. How high is your age on your Bumble? I'm curious. Yeah. into? Yeah, well, because I bumped into the thing a lot where I run out my dad get to the end of the line. So we're in a routine 20 and 3031. So if you run out at scooters two years, either way. Okay. Yeah, if you if you ever run out, if you just scooch the slider over like one year, it refreshes with like more people. Oh, I really just have to adjust your slider. I haven't gone through them all, but I'm sure I will. Eventually. It's very Yeah. Yeah, so you answered Why have you gotten out with like anyone older yet? No, probably. When I was younger, like 23 When I was like, 20, but the biggest disparity? Like, I guess it would suck for them because you couldn't like go to a bar unless you had a fake ID. Which Okay, well. Okay, so your bio, which is like the only thing that says, let's go get liquids or something? Is this to let us know that you care about hydration? All right. I just think it's, like, a first date on the liquids question. Because it's versatile. If someone wants to go get drinks, we can go get drinks. Let's go get coffee. We can go get coffee. So let's go hiking or something. We can drink some water. Yeah. What do you find anything? Oh, question. What is your favorite liquid to drink on a date? If you Yeah, if you could choose one of the liquids. That would be your first date from well, would it be? Oh, it was Thursday. I like my son like a nice, like red wine bottle or red wine on a date? Yeah, but what kind? Cheap. Yeah. Have you? I'm currently drinking this red wine called 19 crimes. Have you heard of this wine? Absolutely. Yeah, it was. Yeah. Well, I was gonna say that would be a perfect first date thing. If they haven't seen it. And you use the app and it talks to you. You could really blow a woman's mind with that. So just for future. Have you done it? It's actually really depressing. What app is it? I forget. It's basically so basically you put the app on the The Wanted poster. And it's like Harry Potter like it comes to life and it tells you it's like a little AR thing. And it tells you why they were sent. So basically, it's a really depressing. Yeah, it's true. It's an Australian wine. And basically it's telling you why these people went were banned from your, from the UK and were sent to to Australia. And one of them's like stealing bread and you're like, oh, that's sad. got sent to Australia for stealing bread like crazy. He's like whole families in Australia now. Yeah, I just probably get like generations like 50 or 100. Kids. Yeah. Cuz like one loaf of bread. If you're, I mean, if you've if you're white, and you've been in Australia for a long time, it's probably because, yeah, you got screwed over by the English government. My grandma's from Australia, but she moved there when she was a kid. So, but I'm sure I mean, but here's. I'm sure that somewhere in my lineage, some buddy did something terrible, right? That's just what I got some like me and me or something. Oh, I for sure. Rob. Early Mormons. Yeah. Yeah. Are they like eight their children on the way over from wherever they're from? Not blue. Yeah, that's the real reason why they got so many kids. Okay. Moving on. Next question. Okay, so you have pictures of you playing bass in? Is that to show us that you're the hottest in your band? I don't know of you. I don't think you have pictures of your bandmates in it. But it's always said that the bass player is the one that gets all the ladies. Is this true? Not not in my experience. I get what I need to know if it's motion is above average. Okay. So you don't consider yourself the hottest in your band? I do. I do. Yeah. Okay. i What is your role? Just bass player? Or do you sing? Do Yeah. Yeah. So just bass. Okay, like do a little bit awards and stuff every now and then. But haven't done that for a couple years. So I've just been playing bass for a while. Do you want to tell us what your band's name is? Or are you afraid of stalkers? And I was cool. I so the main benefit right now is called Casio ghost. Okay, and then we have a startup going right now called Sarah, Sarah. And we're working on getting that off the ground. Cool. Very cool. Well talk more about that as well. Wow. Okay. So follow up question what Blake bass player do you wish you were you were strictly based off sex appeal not off of talent just have sex appeal sexy basis. And it can be sexy to you or it doesn't have to be? Yeah, sexy to everybody. Guess I don't know a bunch of my probably like, John Paul Jones. I don't even know what he looks like. But he was in lots of fun. So he was probably probably really cool. Yeah. It's like they all had great hair. I take it back. Oh, not sexy. John Paul Jones. My choice. My choice. I guess for my me. I just love Paul McCartney. He's not sexy at all. When he's playing. He looks like a little Dewey. But he and Linda were so cute. So I would just love his sex appeal. Even if he he carries himself well, he's he's a performer. Yeah, he's a performer but in a light cue adorable. Writing songs about his dog and stuff. All right. How about how about who would you want to be strictly based off of talent? Which bass player? I mean, Thundercat. Okay, cool. Yeah. Okay, we're moving on to the next question. Have you have a photo in front of a waterfall? Is this to tell us subliminally that you can fall for us? You're starting to give me some good ideas. Is that why you end if Okay, yeah. It's the shoe fits. I guess. That's why the person assumes about that photo that yes, yes. That's why you posted a follow up question. Where was that? It looks like a pretty place well Looks like you it was raining, which might say yes. That was in Jeju Island in South Korea. I was last summer. Yeah. Oh shit. So that more about that. Yeah. So I went for school. I went for study abroad. I lived there for months over the summer. So the University of Utah has a sister campus out there. So we get to live out there and just like, do classes. It was like all the classes I had to do for my major. Yeah. So there's like 20 of us. And yeah, get to like, where you're living probably 20 minutes away from Seoul, like 20 minutes by train. And it was amazing. It was the best experience. What like, go ahead. Yeah. And that Jeju Island where that waterfall is. They have like a small island off the South West Coast, like a little Hawaii for South Korea. So like, everybody goes there for vacations. And it's only like a 30 minute plane ride away. And so they're just getting millions and millions of like, visitors come on vacation there all the time. That is cool. So what was it like? It was just for your major? You didn't go? Because you just were taking all sorts of classes there. Yeah, so it was pretty much like the upper division for my major. Yeah. So it was like, it was supposed to be an iOS minor. So like, people would go and if you get an iOS minor, like just for going to that. Yeah, but I was doing an iOS major. And it just turned out to be all the same classes. That sounds great. I went to France to get my language are awesome. And I got I was a heatwave. And I tested into the really dumb class. And so like I had a great summer because it was really easy for me. I should have been in the higher class. Yeah, it was awesome. And then I ended up with the highest grade of our of our light group. And I was like hell yeah, that's there we go on purpose. Yeah, that's cool. Arlo. Yep, exactly. That's still don't speak. But mine was for the French language. And it was. Yeah, but French teachers are really awesome. Yeah, unfortunately, I didn't pick up a lick of Korean. Oh, yeah. That's, I mean, I feel like the way they move their mouse is just like so different than ours. That would be really difficult. Again, in the alphabet, though, and learn to read the alphabet, like two hours. For some people, I see that promise. See? Oh, but do you have to do nevermind. We don't I don't even know what I'm talking about. But cool. That's a very cool waterfall story. For follow up question. Are there like a shit ton of like hiker babes? In Utah? There's so many hiker dudes. Like is 90% of the men on Bumble. I'm just curious. I yeah, I guess I don't see him on the apps. You see him at the climbing gym. Okay, so they're not there's not a ton of hiking chicks on the apps but there are fortunately. Yeah. Okay. The ever elusive climber baby. Yeah, they're they're snatched up man they got their their climbing buddies at the gym. Super ruin, ready to ready to roll? I will tell you there are a lot of climber dudes. There's so many so many climber dudes on these apps. Okay. Next question. Okay, you have a picture of you and I assume what is your dog or close friend's dog and appears to have the same color of hair as you is this you telling us that you care about aesthetics? I just love puppies. This is really glowing photo of my that's my puppies do go very cute. Very cute. Yeah, just ended up having the same hair. Like I found them on something and just like knew right away like this is my guy. Have you? Have you ever watched the cartoon 101 Dalmatians? No, he was like five probably. There is this part where the boy dog pongo is watching outside his window because his owner he's like he needs a girlfriend. And all the people who are walking by look like they're their dogs. So they like match. And that's what I thought when I saw this. I'm like, if I saw you walking down the street, I will be like, it's like 101 Dalmatians, which is my very favorite part of that movie. It would be so amazing to experience that in real life because I thought that was just normal. I thought that people bought dogs like them. But they grew up. Yeah, a little bit. Yeah, I can walk around your neighborhood. I have cats and they don't look like me. And they're just mean. One of them. Some of them are nice. I've gotten along with like three cats in my way. And it's a jam. It feels nice. Yeah. I felt like if you just gotta stay away from Orange cats, orange cats. All the orange cats I know, are mean, but they're also obsessed with me. It's like a weird. I don't know what to do with them. They love me. They're so mean. Okay. Next, this isn't I mean, yeah. Okay. You have pictures of yourself in the venue, urban lounge. And your these pictures are also in black and white. And is this just you telling us that you're cool? And it looks like one of them. You're in the green room? So it's like, yeah, I performed that urban lounge. Yeah, that's the that's the most recent. Those are from like, two weeks ago. Oh, yeah. And yeah. And it's funny. I have a good friend who actually took the first black and white photo like three years ago. She took these black and white photos also. Wait a few different times. Yeah, so the first or so the bottom two are the same time. Same time. Yeah. The top one. I'm a couple of years young. Oh, yeah. Okay. Yes, yes. I see. Yeah. I was like you're wearing the exact same clothes from two different times. And they also Wait, what is that one? One of them looks like it's what's it called the Garage place with the garage door? Kilby court. Kelly court. Okay, I couldn't do it. Yeah. Yeah, so she's taken all those pictures on the good pictures on Instagram. She's taken for the last like three years. And I just met her on Bumble yesterday or two days ago. Where I feel embarrassed. Only having photos that she's taking. No, it should be a compliment. All the time about it? Yeah. Maybe something will is a Bruin. Okay. Follow? This is just my curiosity. Just because I have never okay. Can you tell us how you can smoke cigarettes socially and not get addicted? People wanna know. I think you lie. You only smoke them socially. What you're saying is that you can't you can't do it. Yeah, pens. I'm actually I'm actually in transition. I just got off the the vape stuff and I'm getting back onto the good ol organic sees. Oh, good. Because I feel like when I'm on like when I'm like, vaping I get like a lot more nicotine throughout the day. Yeah. And it affects my mood a lot more. Yeah. Whereas like, when I smoke cigarettes, I can only have like, once or twice a day. You should get the time that you roll so it's more annoying for you. That's true. Yeah. That's a good idea. Yeah. Think think about this, but not as hard as I've been. But yeah, if you say You smug socially, that's a lie. Don't tell people that you smoke regularly. Yeah, I I was really I don't even think I was. I think I'm like the mother when I go out with my friends. Because they're always hide from me when they go smoke cigarettes. And I'm like, I just I quietly judge them. Because they know they know that they're just doing it because they want to talk to side I know. Like, maybe I am I'm not good at hiding what I'm thinking but it's always because they're talking to somebody and I'm like, not worth it. So fair enough. Fair enough. But it reminds me of being a young lady that smell cigarette I used to Yeah, hang out with like, people would smoke. I think it smells good. But on the other day, yeah. About about quitting smoking cigarettes. And like to when he when he stopped smoking cigarettes. He ran into No, no crazy people in his life anymore. Because like when you're outside smoking a cigarette It feels like an open invitation that like little Ember for just like any Trump person or like random dude off the street to come up and start talking to you. That is actually probably that is. Does that happen? I feel like that would happen. Like, just like people off the street probably asked to bum a cigarette out. Yeah, so that's flair. Yeah, that is interesting. What, uh, that would be kind of fun, though, to listen to their stories, maybe, unless they were gonna murder you or something. Okay, so we're gonna go on to our next segment. Let's talk about do you have any bad state date stories doesn't have to necessarily be apt at bad date stories. Or do do people young people not really go on dates? I feel like people Yeah, tell me. I've been I've been on probably over the years, probably like, and 10 or 12, like, first dates on the apps or whatever. Yeah. Two of them are resulted in like, now one of them results in like a really long term relationship. So it's kind of out of the scene for a little bit, right, but nothing's ever really been like bad. Like, it's always been kind of like, mutually uninterested. You know, like, it's not like it's been some big dramatic red flag that's come up out of the blue. I do have. One time when I was in high school. I went on a date with this girl. And we went like hammocking or whatever. Like in the daytime. We're switching all day in the hammocks and then we went to me went to drive in movie theater or switch in the whole time during the drive in movie theater. And then, yes, she was Mormon and I go to touch her but and then she like swerves out of the way and says take me home. Like right now like, curl on top. And she she's gone. No heavy. Now she got to read this motion for like we've been searching for like four hours. Yeah, they got some strange rules. These Mormons so so that was probably I was probably my like, I guess most embarrassing. Did she not talk to you again? Was she like never again? He tried to know but she's she's married? Yeah. Well, wait, she's 20. Please, Mormons. She's been married. She's been married. Yeah, mansion. I know people who have like 10 year old kids. That is just insanity. To me. Okay. So, yeah, that's a pretty good, that's a pretty good date. I feel like if you if you're going on a Mormon date, I feel like non Mormons have to like, they're not like what they were when I was young, but they had like books that you would read and be like, This is what you're allowed to do. Which was mostly nothing. The fact that she was like telling Enya. Yeah, I'd say I grew up Mormon. Okay, I like kind of know the rules. Like some people like to push them or whatever, you know, yeah. Gotta test the boundaries. Yeah, I felt like, when I was 13, the book of chastity was a way to grow like hornier. Like, went into detail a lot more than the ones now. And I had a man, a man of the bishop Britt, come and read it, have me read it to him out loud. Which is really a good way. It's a good way to make you be like, I don't want to do it. Because this MAC and it's like, stuff that you like, I was like, 13. And I was like, wait, what does that even mean? Like it's like giving me you ideas because you don't even know. You're like, what does you know? Heavy Petting me? Well, yeah, so wild times in these Mormon hills. Okay. Let's go on to we're going to do some red flags and green flags. So is there anything that you see on the apps that you're like, hell no. Get out of my get on my face cuz I don't think I'm too picky, I guess. Yeah. Like, I don't think you have a whole lot of like, immediate, like, apparent red flags, like right up front, you know, talk to someone see what's up. I'm trying to think what would turn me off from somebody, either. So are you saying you're just a right Swiper all the time. You don't say no. to certain people, you got to do what you got to do. I figured cast a wide net and then that later, but then it's like you do not have an overwhelming amount of matches that you have to deal with. The problem with men, I feel like women are. Okay. So you're a swipe. Okay. So you don't have as a story or you're like, oh, I should have seen this coming nothing off the top my head. I can't think, oh, women are great. That's, that's what I'm, oh, yes, 90 99% of interactions fizzle out. You know, I guess I'd meet like, one one in every, like, 25 matches or something or like, probably like every, like, one in 50 matches, like one and 25 interactions are like, yeah, yeah, talks back and forth or whatever. Yeah, so things just kind of, like naturally fizzle out. Like, it's not really like, Oh, I'm out of here. Like, it's just kind of a people get bored. I feel like there's a kind of like, the climate, I guess, of online dating, is there's a lot lower premium on like, choosing someone, I guess. And like sticking with that, and like, even, like going on dates where like, because like, you get the you have like your app flow, you know, on your phone. So like you check, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, blah, blah. And like when you're doing the apps like them, like Tinder and Bumble or whatever, like in your flow. So you have a where, like, you're on a date. And then just like mindlessly, you click on your dating apps while they're in the bathroom or something. And you're just like, why do I do it, and they give it to you, it's going great. You're having a great time. This is kind of a, the mindless, again, interaction of it. And then at the same time, you've got 50 Other options in your pocket, you know? So, if this date isn't 10 out of 10, or like, a great time or whatever you're like, yeah, it's okay. Whereas, pre kind of the app culture, you know, like, if it went, Okay, you're like, oh, we'll give them another shot. Like, we'll see what happens when we go out again. That's this is very accurate of dating lives. Okay, how old were you when you got the dating? The dating apps? I would have been, it was like, 18. Round. We got to college. Okay. Yeah. So it's not like, there's no like a teenage version of this some work. So you have to be 18. I think you have to sort of I'm guessing there's like, younger people than that. Which is weird. Yeah. I was. I was embarrassed. Because I'll see like people's profiles. And they're like, 23, like, actually a little I'm 21. Yeah. He's the head and like, the profile two years early in life after age. Yeah. But I guess I was. I was embarrassed in high school, I guess. So. Like, I didn't get it. I grew up when I turned 18. Yeah. Because I didn't want to like, I don't know, see other people in the halls? Like, see me on it or whatever. Yeah. So I went to college and like, kind of moved away from that group. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, it's wild that that was a thing. I think I got I think I got Tinder when I like, first was the thing. Which was like, 2012 or something. But do you think that that's like, is that like, the new normal? That's how people meet each other? You younguns Yeah, I it's, it's a way and I hate to call it the only way because like, you are, let's say you meet people organically, you know. But it's all about an interaction, you know, you get to bump into someone somewhere. Yeah. It's easier, because it's like, you already know that that person's open to like romance. And if you bump into a person who knows? And we're all Yeah, and I was a lot more comfortable behind their phones now. Because you have that little anonymity, right. Like, I'm terrified to strike up a conversation at a coffee shop with a cute girl or something. Yeah, like I can swipe right and be like, a Yo Ma, like that's what I use. Yes, exactly. Yeah. I have a fault. So I'm Bumble. The women have to message first. What do you think like? What do you most women say to you? Is there like a picture that they most like is your popular picture that people comment on? Or We're probably nuts. Probably like 80% Hey Come on ladies. We should be better than this. Hey, insane shit. We're gonna make you do the work. I know it's supposed to be us coming up with the conversation, but we do not accept this. Lame. Okay, go like 80% High 5% Oh my god, I love your dog 10% Something to do with music like one of my artists or something that like, oh, I listen to them or something like another 5% I don't even know if I want to give 5% And people were like, comment on a specific picture. Just the dark one pretty much. Yeah. Okay. Yeah, no, no, no, no, no. Majority. Hi. That's so disappointing. I thought that was a man thing to do. And says to, don't worry, I'm going to get some ladies on here. And I'm going to be like, why are we doing this? That's what? Better? Get it? Get it together. Lame. Okay, so what about like, is obviously we've established that you're like, you like most of the the swipe your swipe, swipe guy. Swipe right. So is there anything that you're like? You see that you're like, I really hope this person contacts me within the 24 hours or else I might be a little bit sad. Yeah, definitely. Like I'm a sucker for like, loose curly hair. Like, like nose rings or like, like a lot like face jewelry and stuff. Teeth and big teeth go get smile, just like a nice like, put together smiling and now. I also not like specific teeth. Not like one tooth. Great tooth right there. I have a weird thing with teeth too. And I would always like tell people like when I was on the dating app set date. I would say stuff about their teeth and when they would think I was weird. Not talk to me anymore. But I'm glad that other I guess it's yours a smile. I just think that some people just have like, weirdly perfectly shaped teeth. And I'm like, how did they come out with just like the perfect silly shaped tooth and so I have to talk about it. Yeah, yeah. Or like, I also like slightly, you know, character teeth a little bit weird and memorable. Yeah. Like, I was in love with Billie Joe Armstrong of green day when I was 18. And he has like a strange tooth and I was like, I love that man. I love him. Very me forever. Billy Joe say I'm also a sucker for dreadlocks. The first girl I ever kissed tetrode locks. I'm connecting just on camera. Let's see. Dreadlocks just seem like a lot of upkeep. So they are like down for upkeep with their hair going forward. They're here. They know what they're doing. Same with like, I'm gonna say my nose ring took like a year to heal. So people with nose rings were impressive. It takes commitment. It takes you know, taking care of doing I know. I wouldn't mind a country club and they made me take it out. Damn. Yeah, so ladies only nose piercings, or are you down for whatever else is cool. Yeah, no, I have like all kinds of piercings. Kind of like a like an alt alt type vibe. You know? Yeah. Yeah. I feel like the emo girl is coming back this emo scene girl. I didn't Yeah, and um, um, about it. Yeah. I it was just reminds me of, you know, when I loved Green Day, I wasn't the same girl. I was too afraid of cutting my own hair. They all cut their own hair. But yeah, that's cool. It's coming back. My, my preteen my preteen years. Okay. Any other green flags you feel like you don't really like center music back and forth. Yeah, that's, that's a big one. There's like if we can, like, Hang musically, I guess or like, but that's probably Yeah. I'm like that. So If somebody what would be the dream scenario like the person sent you this song you would be like we are made for each other it does that exist and find one. Okay. Probably like boots of Spanish leather by Bob Dylan. I think. Okay, that's not even like I thought was going to be very like to ground. I feel like Bob Dylan is a well liked man. Okay. Yeah, he's he's my favorite. Yeah, it was probably an all time favorite. Bob Dylan's your all time favorite. Yeah, don't take the history of rock and roll out the you hit the guy, the guy who teaches it hates Bob Dylan song, Bob Dylan. I sat on my class a couple times, but I didn't have time to watch the rest of it. It was, too. I did. Yeah, it was dumb. And also, you could cheat on the test. Man. Oh, yeah. But at one point, when my sister was going to the EU, her friend took it and it was too hard. Everyone was failing. And so the guy so the guy who wrote the book. He got the release all the tests, the professor actually released all the test answers. Sure. I'm sure he did. I'm sure he did. Yeah, he was an interesting guy. But there were some classes that were interesting, but I felt like yeah, he really hated Bob Dylan. And who knows I'm like this guy wrote this book. We don't know if this is like the reality of these musicians that he's talking about and that's what was weird about it is like he was just like putting his opinion on didn't say hi to him at a coffee shop or something one time so he's like, really pissed off. I was gonna indoctrinate years and years of students to be anti Dillon. Yes, but I think we all were against him on that one. So my class was like, Get this guy out of here. Don't want to learn from him anymore. Okay, anything else that you feel like telling us before I ask you our last question No, I think I'm ready. Okay, cool. Are you in love with me now? Be honest, tell us what your heart feels I'd say like probably like a not like a romantic way parent like a platonic way. You seem like a great hang. I am a great Hank. All right. Bye. Not gonna lie ladies and gentlemen and all of you in between. I 100% made up a fanfiction in my brain about Ethan and photographer girl getting together after their Bumble match Let's cross our fingers but I'm also you can find his one of his bands Casio ghost at Casio that Yost dot music and they played at the Kilbey block party so you got to know that they're pretty big deal. And also follow us on our social medias at Pursuit of Happiness podcast on Instagram at pursuit of happiness on Tik Tok and at P O eight underscore pod on Twitter. 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