We talk to Jake from Hinge in our first ever episode. Do you wear cool sneakers with sundresses? You might be the lady for Jake! You can forgive him for liking Oasis over Blur.
Sound supervising, mixing, and editing by B.T. Measles.
We talk to Jake from Hinge in our first ever episode. Do you wear cool sneakers with sundresses? You might be the lady for Jake! You can forgive him for liking Oasis over Blur.
Sound supervising, mixing, and editing by B.T. Measles.
Hello, and welcome to the podcast pursuit of appiness. Yes, that is upon because we're going to be talking to strangers and some friends about their dating apps and just dating in general. And if you thought I said pursuit of a penis, get your mind out of the gutter you were going to talk to Jake, a stranger from the internet about things like Disney adults and Mormonism. So stay tuned icebreaker time Have you ever sent a dick pic? Never in my life? Are you lying? I'm not lying. I promise. That's one of my heart knows. That's a good, that's a good quality. You're already you know, much higher than other people. Okay, so first, we're, I mean, after the icebreaker, we're going to ask a little bit about you just so we kind of know what type of person you are. And I personally find out the most about people by asking them their favorite movie. So you can ask me, What's your favorite movie? I think my favorite movie is pool hall junkies. I have no idea what that is. It's a little older. There was like an indie flick that was filmed in Salt Lake. Oh, really? Yeah. Christopher Walken is the most known. He gets probably like one of the best speeches you'll ever see. Okay, like Maurice Callahan, I think is the lead. And that dude who played Lex Luthor on Smallville, he plays the young brother. Yeah, it was like big in the 90s Whose 90s guy? It was filmed like all over town. I used to play at those places. So it's kind of a special part of my heart that are being girls. Okay, so what's your favorite like band music? Band won't go with band. That's easier. Straight up band. For today, because I know that's favorites are hard. Well, it's so hard to say like if I just choose one band, I'd probably say always says, Okay, any rd? I don't know if he could consider them. A band band like oasis. Them my favorite artist straight up was probably mad lib. Otis Jackson Jr. He has many projects. Okay, I'm much more do you do you buy into the blur versus oasis? Oh, argument? I I'm not a blur fan. No, they do Michael Bisping Centro and that's about all I know. I I'm much more of a blur fan though. And then Oasis, but I find them interesting. Okay, I know about you now. Okay. What's your job? My job is a secret. I see that the computer and I make money. Really? Well, so I feel bad talking about it, to be honest. Okay. things where it's like he does what? Like I, like he get paid for that. And basically, I help people communicate better. And my work life balance is more balanced towards the life side. Okay, so I don't really go into work. The whole SEO corruption stuff kind of threw me off and put a bad taste in my mouth after college. So I give up on that. Well, I mean, it sounds great. They get to just live life and get paid for people communicate. Okay, and last thing is, what's wrong with you? And I will tell you what's wrong with me. And you can take this however way you want it. Just tell me what's wrong with you? What's wrong with me? Probably very young, when I had started to have my existential crises led to a lot of introversion. I don't know, feeling too much. You're like a job interview. Like I'm just, you know, too many things. Some outside perspective on that. Well, I don't know you very well, so I can't rent we'll see after this. What's the what's really wrong with you my red flags? Yeah, well, we'll actually discuss that. I would say what's wrong with me is that I am the youngest of my family. And everybody just loves me a lot. So I have to high confidence and most things that I do because I'm the baby of the family, they're like your perfect. Okay, we're gonna now move on to overgeneralize questions about men for men. I got these from people on social media and also the internet and also me and my sister were drinking wine. So if it sucks, just pretend it was from the internet. All right, I'm gonna just, I'm gonna I'm gonna just pick a random card. Okay to you, meaning all men, however, built many billions there are feel bad for making Megan Fox a sex symbol when she said that she didn't want to be. Do we feel bad? How do you feel about making her a sex symbol and ruining her career? I blended an actress they did to me. They forced all that sex on me and made me think that way. Growing up, watching all the crazy shit on TV. And then once I was 12 years old, and I got the internet, like, yeah, thing I worry about kids now that are like 1110. That's like elementary school kids on their iPhones. You want to hear a crazy, something crazy. Yeah. So my boss, my old boss had two stepsons, that she was paying their phone bills, like 17. And she's like, how can you come explain to me how they can run up this much data in a month on these phone plans? And I'm like, and it was ridiculous. I was like, well, they're watching hours of HD video. So what could they be watching? Like argue that? Like, like, 15 year old six year old kids, somebody was watching some porn. And then she didn't believe me. And then a week later, that like they came forth with them like, Yeah, sure. I can't believe those kids. Why would they do that? Because they're Mormon, too. Okay, I was gonna say like, what's are these people? totally clueless? Yes. But the Megan Fox thing. It's like, they made way look at the roles they gave her like Jennifer's Body was good. I thought that was a cool movie. Like her transformers shit, though. She's the first movie you saw of her? No, Jennifer's Body was before that. transferences is that like, I think transformers was her like major role. The first one I ever saw her and was that Lindsay Lohan one? Confessions of a teenage drama queen. Oh, yeah. I remember seeing her and being like, damn, who's that? And then she was in a Mary Kate mash Lee movie. And that's the first time the only one one worse. Like the Parent Trap. Type one. It takes two. Yeah, it was. No, it was one word they went to. They went to like the Caribbean or something. And they used a Weezer song in the beginning and I was like what this That's wild. Let me see. I'm gonna hurry an IMDB because did you have all their books too? I was so I watched all their movies. But I never had books. I got the dolls. They had like dolls that they had. I was at Mary Kate and Ashley freak. But I guess not enough to to get the bucks from our parents. Were just like, we're not doing that. But I would wake up they had a Saturday morning cartoon and I would wake up at 6am to watch it because I was obsessed with them. A card. Okay. Yeah, they had a cartoon of them. Ah, let's see. Holiday and no holiday in the sun. I think it was holiday in the sun. That makes sense. They play island in the sun. Yep. And that's the Yeah, that's the sun they put Megan Fox okay. So Sarah answer. Yes, it is. It is we we That's good. I'm glad you're not taking you're not blaming all Nigel little boy. Okay, that's when I can tell you that. I did not. I didn't write this one. But do men really not notice their man spreading? Their mighty spreading? Do you know what that is? When? When you like if you're in a public transportation, you've never heard of man's flat spreading and spreading like you just sit with you like take up a lot of room when you're sitting on a small guy so I don't really take up Space. How do you? How do you sit? Do you sit with your legs? Closed? Setting? Yeah, like on a train? Yeah, just sit like normal, I guess like, my legs might spread a little bit. I mean, you got to, like the reason for like, you would spread your legs wider and take up more space to, like, get your balls from ones unstuck from your insides your legs, so that's okay. So it's really just, there's like a reason behind it. It's like they don't like it when their balls are stuck to themselves. And it's the same shit. You'll notice, like when we're walking, if we like, look to the side or glance backwards. It's kind of like you're doing the same thing. Like you're doing little unstuck. Motion. Okay. How does okay? I don't I don't really understand that. But you know what? You can explain if you you turn your head and it gets you unstuck. How know it's like you're walking, but any kind of turn, you take a longer step and you turn Oh, okay, so yeah, yeah. Okay, I get it now. Okay, so I think I mean, I guess, men don't realize it because you didn't even know what it was. Oh, manspreading. Follow the terminology. The terminology is just I think that women get annoyed because men sit like with their legs very far apart, which is annoying to sit next to basically, I could see that in a pan setting or lightning. Well, probably both I was. And like I say in cobblers pose a lot. Oh, if you're by yourself, who cares? How you sit? Right? You could just be naked. Who cares? Nobody's there to judge? Yeah. Okay. Oh, we're gonna talk about your profile. Don't worry. It's not mean. Go for it roast me. I'm not roasting anyone. Someone was very concerned that I was just gonna be like really mean to them? And I was like, No, that's not fun. I'm going to basically ask you, I'm gonna tell you what I think of what is happening, why you use a certain photo or why you did something. And then you can tell me really why you did? Yeah. Which is maybe you're just like, I just don't have that many pictures of myself. But that's what I'm guessing most people. Okay. First of all, you're the only man I've ever seen read on Instagram. No other man has done that. So I'm not Instagram. Sorry. On date dating app hinge. Am I supposed to let them know? I'm not a dumbass. Yeah, and I and I have to say that. I always click if there's like a little thing that says, hey, I'm going to describe why I'm doing this. And I appreciated that. So I want to say hi, five. And in my head. I was like, okay, so this man, he is reading to us, because he wants to prove that he's not dumb. But also, is it because you want women to visualize you reading to us on our deathbed? Because that's what you do when you're dying. I've actually never read to anyone in person like that. I like being read to audiobooks or do you like somebody there in the room reading out loud? I mean, audiobooks have all I've been used to for the last couple years, but I yeah, I'm down. I like, I like having people read. Okay, and all depends on your voice. Yeah, but if you have a noise can ruin it. Iago voice No, thanks. So what is the book you didn't tell us what the book was? And I think that's actually very smart. Because then people women are gonna be like, Oh, I gotta find out what this book is because you didn't tell? What is it? Do you remember? Yeah, I said that her name in the what I was reading. It was Frannie. And Zoey. Oh, Paul, how did it say that? You didn't say this is the book though. No, but like, why don't we have a context? Why would anyone maybe some of us haven't realized I think nobody likes swiping. Okay, no, going off my shelf and I was like, Ah, I'll read from this one. I just opened it and was like, Okay, this sentence sounds alright. That is that book is on one of my favorite Netflix Christmas series. So I appreciate it. Called. It's actually cape. I know. Netflix puts out a lot of really shitty Christmas movies. And they have to have done series but this one's actually good. It's called Dash and Lily. And it's just cute. And I think it's well done. But they and they basically meet well kind of meet in a bookstore and they talked about that book. So I'm gonna put on my Well, yeah, I wouldn't expect most people. Most people like over a teenager age, probably not into it. Okay, here is the next question, which we spoke about earlier. Is Damian from ni girls quote your actual favorite line from a movie? Or do you know Mean Girls hits millennial women at our core? That was just the only line I could think of that I remembered from a movie. Because it's hard to remember lines like what's a member line? Like, here's looking at you kid. Saw that I just know that because it's popular. Yeah, it's, I'm gonna tell you it's overrated. But you do you said it was one of your favorite movies. So that's like a genuine you like it? But also did you know? You're like, you know that women like that movie? Apparently. I'm speaking on behalf of all women. Now a woman dislikes that movie. Okay, next one. I'm very curious. Because I think you put it under strangely attracted to what is it about ears? I don't know. It's just one of those things. It's like you see, like, ears poking out of the hair. Or like the like a nice lobe and like, damn, I'd feel good. My mouth. Oh, hello. Hello, God. Just one of those unexplainable you don't have like a moment in your life where you're like, that's why I am attracted to them. There's somebody you had a crush on that had really big ears sticking out of their hair. Something. If I had to pin it back to a one moment was probably the first time like a girl like whispered into my ear. Like not a whisper but just like that. breathiness right by my ear, and was like down and no, like, I could feel a sensation from just that. Like, that's cool. And then since then, it was like, Oh, damn, I like yours. The person who whispered in your ear. Was it just like a regular whisper or was it something sexy? No, we were making out. Okay, she was like, then I started playing with her years. And I was like, okay, that's the thing. This is cool. Yeah, that makes sense. Okay, okay. I get it. No. Yeah, it was just something I never even knew. Until I was like, 30. I was like, Oh, cool. Like, no one's ever done that to my ears. There was there was a show called Moran when I was little. Yeah. And her friends always had like her hair hurt her ears stuck out of her hair. And I thought it was cool. For some reason. And so that's just what that reminds me of. I just imagined you as a child watching February. I'd be like, yeah, that card too. Okay, this is a good one. So you have I think you have two golf photos. And I said, this is what I imagine you are thinking when you're posting it is like, you want women to visualize you're teaching them how to golf like because the only way you can teach someone how to golf is truly sexy. Is like you got to wrap your arms around. Show them how to swing, right. I mean, you're not wrong. But that was not my intent. No, I'm thinking like, this is a video of me doing something. There's nothing else on my phone. Okay, yeah. And plus I sunk like a 12 foot birdie putt so that felt good. I again, I'm answering for all women. Everywhere. I have no idea if that's impressive. No women. No, just kidding. I'm sure there are that do. I was anyone. I was a woman took that video. Oh shit. I was with. I was with a couple. The okay climb and you caught me. I'm not the voice of all women. Has anyone been like, that's impressive? No, yeah. Damn. I didn't think they would be. I just need updated content. You gotta show him. That's why I Okay, first of all. Here's a question for you. Why can't men read Because I am very, I feel like I'm very explicit about why I'm on the dating app. And I say in my prompt that if you just like my photo, you are disqualified. I get these people. And it's like, here's the weirder thing is like, I know that they are scrolling because I know like, they had to scroll to see other pictures. So it's not like them just liking the first picture. They think there's one exception. No, they're not. They're not the exception. Delete. Right away. It's wild. Since you've been speaking for all women, can you tell me why? adult women love Disneyland so much? Disney adults, just freak me out. Um, have you been to Disneyland? Yeah. I think it's because everyone who's working there, which is what you don't see very often is nice to you. They're just happy. It also I always call it mouse twits. Oh, no, don't tell the bearable for them. My only rationale is that it's like a nostalgic thing. Like you're back as an adult. But now you have money. You don't have to worry about like, Oh, mom said I can only get one thing to Disneyland as a kid. It was like a stretch for my family to make it. Yeah, like we could only get a few things. We spent the entire day getting the most out of our day. Yeah. Like, you go back now as an adult, and it's like, Oh, I've got a couple 100 bucks on my own I can spend, and that'll get you two hours worth of things. Um, yeah, I think it's just I think it's, I think millennials, people born in the 90s. We have a thing with nostalgia. And I think it's a huge thing with nostalgia. Like just making you bringing out the inner child. I feel like I've been to as an adult without children, but I've been also with my nieces. And that's like a different I if I had children, I would want to take them all the time, just because it makes sense. But it's like, these girls trips to Disneyland. Yeah, I want the hill. I think it's just like an excuse to to, like, are they even doing drugs? Are they just going? I don't know. I so when I'm in Disneyland, I'm like, I am such a Disney adult. But then like, you buy like a T shirt or something. And you're like, I will never wear this outside of display. Like what was I thinking? It's like, I think that they put drugs in the air. And it's like you just like, are having the time of your life. And then when you get out, you're like, Why the hell do I have ears? When am I going to wear Mickey ears ever in my life? Why would I buy these? Here's a question. That's also for men in general, because I feel like in most people's profiles, they have one photo in a formal event. And it's like, I actually I actually kind of appreciate it because it's kind of like, okay, I can this man can clean up. I can take him and people will be Ambrette impressed or whatever. But it's just Is that why is that why you put them on there? You're like, I want these women to know that. They can take me to weddings, when I look good in it. Just like you feel. So men also. I mean, I gotta have an outfit. I mean, I don't know about you that I have Shitler outfits. That's like, you gotta show every different situation like yeah, and sport load. He's me in relaxed mode, formal mode. That's true. I don't. I do think that that men are like, don't like I think women take we take pictures of ourselves all the time if we felt cute, but I think that it's like, like the only event where someone's actively taking pictures of them. And they don't have to like, think about it. Like, hey, we take a photo of me. Make sure my arm is skinny enough. And yeah. I don't think yeah, that's not something that men do. So I think that's why they have it. Makes sense. Okay, do you have any bad? Like, app stories? Have you gotten any really bad dates or anything? Because I'm kind of every time somebody tells me. Every time a man tells me their bad date stories, I'm like, this isn't even bad. Trust me. I've been on some strange dates. So let's hear it. So you're gonna tell me years after? Yeah, I will. Okay, so, I mean, not really a bad date. But there was a time I realized I fucked up like right after I said it because I just heard facial expression. Because she's, she was Mormon. She says she's LDS and I was that. She's like, I'm not really practicing. But I'm LDS still, like, go sometimes. And then, like later in the day, she brought up something about feminism, like how she was doing this LDS feminism group. And I was like, isn't, isn't that an oxymoron? And, like LDS feminist and she was like, it took her a second to realize what I said. And she's like, You have no idea what you're talking about. And then it was just really short. With me until dinner was over as long like 15 more minutes. Yeah. And then it was just like, not even a hug. Goodbye. All right. Oh, she was yes. When I was my role, and I know, I mean, when I was Mormon, definitely, feminism was not on the forefront of anyone's mind ever. And basically, the weird thing is my dad would make like would take us to church, but my dad would go and argue with people, like I swear, he was just trying to make people like think bigger. So it's weird that he was more Mormon, but I think it was because of his family. And so he taught us very, very young, like, don't listen to what these people are telling you. And I remember, there's this, you go to your separate, we young women's and young men are separate. And they would basically tell teach you like how to date properly. And like, it was so weird. And then, I mean, I stopped going when I was 13, because it was just weird. And I was like, I don't understand this. And my mom was like, Cool. You don't have to go anymore. And my dad, my parents got divorced. My dad was like, whatever you want to do. And I didn't go back. But I had a whole Young Women's that was like, we had to pick out our future husband out of a hat. And it told us his like background, and it was like your husband kissed a lot of girls in high school. How do you feel about that? And I was like, I'm fine with him kissing girl in high school. And they're like, No, and I was like, well, she's not supposed to kiss other women in high school. Like, I was so confused. These hypothetical men are like that. old dudes that are there that want the bride's. I mean, that could be it. That age gap. She bugs me so much like, oh, yeah, they write it off. Like it's nothing like oh, yes, I have old coworkers that were like, trying to set up 40 year old men with 20 year old women. Oh, I'm sure because I I'm guessing. I mean, I feel like most Mormon marriages are not successful because they get married very young, because they want to have sex. And yeah, we can do that as if you're married. So yeah, so I'm sure it's like divorced guys. And they're like, Oh, we got to find our next Yeah, It's wild. But I don't I truly cannot comprehend it is an oxymoron. Because to be part of the Mormon Church, like women have no power at all. So it doesn't make sense. Yeah. Like, you're not even allowed to question that. No, the woman who was like I think that women should have the priesthood got excommunicated. So it makes no sense. But yeah, but I mean, she probably thought that was a bad day. But it sounds like you kind of got out of a weird situation. Yeah. And then the only I can't think of any other like, oh, another weird situation. Like I dropped a girl off one night. And we're like, I dropped her off at her house. And it was like, it was cool. Like, just nice, respectful. I didn't. I had no intention of seeing her again. I was like, Yeah, we're done. And she just sat there and stared at me in the car, like smiling. And I'm like, All right. The car still run in and wait, she was inside the car. And she was like, waiting for you? Yeah, she's like, kept looking at me, like wanting me to kiss her or something. And I'm just like, Alright, that was fun. Like, have a good night. And she like, kept like, she wouldn't leave. She wouldn't get out of the car. And I'm just like, it was most longest minute of me just like, okay, what can I say? Just sort of get the fuck out. Be nice. She finally left and what were What did you have to say? I was just like, Alright, that was fun. I'm like, Cool. I just like kind of clap that. I was like, All right. Well, I'll talk to you later. Later. Yeah, I mean, okay, here. I think this was maybe one of my last dates. And so I met up with this guy. And it was fun because he was like, I'm totally into karaoke. And I was like, Cool. Let's go do that. Because I like karaoke. Which maybe that's weird. And I would never like suggest that for first day, that was not the weird part. He really likes karaoke. I'm having a really hard time like ending dates. Like, I don't know how to be like Kay. But like, see, because the people who asked me out there never like, let's go to dinner. I feel like dinner. It's like, cool. We're done with dinner. See you. It's like, let's meet up for beers, or let's meet up for coffee. And it's like, then they're like, oh, let's go to this other place. And then I'm like, okay. Oh, a second location. He took me, I think, four different locations. So we had one beer at the karaoke place. And then he's like, Oh, I'm too drunk. We need to go somewhere else. Because I can't drive home. He lived in Provo. Which trovo Yeah, red flag. Anyways, so we went to coffee place. And he kept on telling me about how he felt pressure from his family to have children. I was like, oh, cool, interesting topic, to pick on the first date. And then we had to walk somewhere else I don't even remember. And then he told me that he was a wizard. And this is legit, legitimate story. And I was like, Oh, haha, like laughing like saying something about Harry Potter. And he's like, No, I'm serious. And I was like, I don't understand. And he was like, I go down to Provo River. And I turn frogs back into people. And I was like, in, okay, and he's like, you actually do that? And he's like, yes. Processing trauma. Do and then he was like, Oh, I know that you just got on this dating app, because I swiped through all of the dating app. And I only get pop ups if someone new sign up. And he's like, I'm really just trying. I really just want to have kids for my family, my parents, and yeah. And then I feel like it was like, probably two in the morning because I have a problem of just being like Kay, bye. And I was like, Cool. Are you sober enough to drive home? And he's like, Yeah, and I was like, bye. And I never talked to him again. Because it was. So there is a person out there. If you want to find him, he'll probably be by promo river turn turning toads into humans. I don't he said he had a staff even I don't. It won't be a toad. Maybe he's a toad turned up to person. I don't know. It was wild time. So yeah, I feel like my story beats yours alone. Yeah, that definitely does. Okay, so we're almost to the final question. We have one more segment. And we kind of talked about a little bit we touched on it. Do you have any like red flags? On like dating apps? That you're like, hell no. Instant swipe right. Or left left? I have a few. Yeah. What's your Apple Watch? If you are an Apple Watch, that's usually a bad sign to me. I I had a Fitbit but I only used it for time, and then it broke. I feel like anyone who I've met with that has an Apple Watch is always looking at it. It's like That's true messages. Like Put your fucking phone away. Oh my gosh, I hate that standard. My old boss had one and he I would be like having a meeting and he would just be like, Oh, I get that one. I get I agree. I look down. Yeah, like no hate that. Any of those like golden doodle dogs. That shits my vendor that said that was his biggest life's regret. Oh, it was the golden doodle? Yeah. Yeah. Labradoodle, one of the two. Yeah. Like I just felt like people who have like expensive dogs. Yeah, let's get the ones adopt for him. How do you talk? Instagram I can be okay with but if your Instagram has all these fucking hashtags, peace if Instagram is nothing but selfies, peace. Okay, I pass. I think so far pass on your read. I mean, you obviously. But it was my very explicit about being in pockets but I don't. I wouldn't like to anyway. Listen to be fun. I probably would have honestly if I was doing this. Genuinely, I'd have a lot weirder thing But I was like, I gotta trick people. I gotta reel them in. I had. Yeah. So it would be a lot weirder. Another one I've thought of, is the women that hide that they have kids? Yeah, that's if your profile doesn't explicitly say no kids. I'm going to assume they have kids. Yeah, because there's all these like little tells. Then the most popular one is like a car selfie. But there's a car seat in the back. Oh, yeah. And it's like, oh, but then it doesn't say that. They don't have kids. Yeah, so what is it? Weird? A mirror selfie put in the reflection. You see a fridge was shitty are on it. That's it. Oh, that's I don't take car selfies. But I do i for money. I am my sisters. My nieces nanny. So people. If I was in the car, they would be like this bitch has of baby and she's hiding it from me. It's like it's Yeah. Like, yeah, I have to say that a lot of Christian dads are super into. I mean, they just like me, not 31 I think one of them was maybe going to be on the podcast, but I'm afraid of offending them. So I haven't committed to having them on. But yeah, Christian dads love this. I don't know what it is about me that they're like, you'd be great mother to? I don't know, they're very upfront. Christian dads are very upfront with their children. It's weird to me that they that they show their children like, I think it's I think it's just weird to like, have pictures with like you're showing your kid to potential people that put their kids on Instagram. It's weird. Your profiles aren't even private. Yeah, I mean, I share my days. But I'm private. So like weirdos are? are looking at it. But yeah, that's so weird. To me. It is. It's super weird that men are posted posting their family photos with their children. That is a red flag. Like why that is weird. I bet your wife ex wife is not stoked. You're using your child on your dating profile. Do you refer to yourself as a cat mom or for Mama? No. Those are smaller red flags. But I do have a question. And I felt like I need how many cats is that? Is the unattractive amount of cats? Depends on the cats. I could deal with one or two. I think anything more than two? Your cat lady and it might take some more warming up to two of my cats. Hide. So only looks like I have two cats. Okay, what are so what are like automatic green flags? Like what are you like? Yes, I have to swipe right because this is so attractive. nice pair of sneakers. Like wires and this pair of sneakers that isn't like popular and well known. Feel like every girl wears a pair of dirty air force ones or has like white knight or white knight. He's the super on trend. And then like anything that's like, not on trend, but it's like if you know, you know, like, Jordans are really popular. Like, anyone could grab those like you're not. You're not shatter rich and you're not original. Yeah, like something like that. Like if a girl rolled up in some pretzels or some kind of like old SP dogs. I'd be like, damn, okay, or like sneakers with the sundress I think is very good. I like that green flag for me. Like, saying, like, whatever, like, their favorite album resonates with me. Or like they're playing a song if you choose your favorite song or whatever. I'm like, Oh, shit, she likes that. And it's like it goes back to 500 Days of Summer. Just because yeah, because some cute girl likes the same weird oh shit you're into doesn't make her your soulmate. I feel like that the hard way. Yeah, but I feel like that. I mean, if you're tight, I feel like I'm like that too. That's like, you mentioned this band that I like or comedian that I liked. That comedians, too, like that's a big one if they can name someone else other than Jim Gaffigan. I'm just like Are you ready for my last Question. 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